Thema: Should I tell my bf that I have alexi?

I have alexitymia and my score is 130. In fact I don't feel like I have a problem with this. However nearly all people around me say I am too distant/emotionless and also some of them complain much about this.

I actually got better with emotions after I met with my current bf. I am in a 4 years loving relationship with him. At first even I was surprised when I started to feel and express more. But still he says he feels like he is the girl(more emotional/caring one) in the relationship. He even asked me "why do you never get angry with me or make a fuss about something? I am the one that always do that kind of things."

I don't want to make him confused anymore but I don't know what his reaction will be.